Posted on September 15, 2014 11:00 am PDT

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How to Rebuild Self-Esteem in Addiction Recovery

If someone you love is struggling with addiction, you may notice they often feel low about themselves. Addiction and low self-esteem are closely linked. Low self-worth can make someone feel stuck in old patterns and unsure if life can get better. But rebuilding self-esteem is possible, and it’s a key part of long-term recovery.

Why Self-Esteem Matters

Self-esteem is how a person values themselves and feels about their worth. When alcohol or drugs take over, people often push aside their own needs. They may feel guilt, shame, or that they don’t deserve good things in life. These feelings make it harder to stay sober and build a new life.

Low self-esteem and addiction can create a cycle:

A person may use substances to escape negative thoughts.
This can make feelings of worthlessness stronger.
Over time, this makes it harder to stop using without support.

How Recovery Helps Self-Worth

Addiction treatment gives your loved one a chance to see themselves differently. In treatment, they can:

Learn about why they used substances
Build new coping skills
Connect with supportive peers and counselors
Practice healthy self-care and positive habits
These steps help them see value in themselves again.

Simple Ways to Begin Rebuilding Self-Esteem

Here are some ways people in recovery can start feeling better about themselves:

Practice self-compassion — Encourage gentle, kind thoughts instead of harsh self-criticism. Wikipedia
Set small goals — Meeting achievable goals builds confidence. Mental Health Resource
Connect with supportive people — Positive relationships help reinforce worth. Real Recovery Talk
Learn healthy coping skills — Therapy and support groups boost resilience. Orlando Recovery Center